Peter and Linda, married for more than 50 years

Amazing Marriage

A Marriage Can Get Better Every Year

After more than 50 years together, we’ve learned that love grows when couples learn simple daily habits of kindness, empathy, forgiveness, and teamwork.

This course shares the exact principles that helped us build a peaceful, deeply connected marriage.

For us, every day is full of peace & love. Not only that, but when we do have a disagreement, it is usually resolved within 60 seconds.

Bedtime Banter

Recently, as Linda was getting ready to brush her teeth before going to bed, this was our bedtime banter.

Me (while massaging Linda's shoulders): Thank you for marrying me.
Linda: It sure is fun.
Me: You mean being married?
Linda: Yes.
Me: It seems to be at an all-time high.

We kept tweaking it

Years ago our marriage wasn't nearly as special as it is now. The good thing was, we both had the desire to make it better. We kept working on it and improving it. What we have now was beyond our wildest dreams years ago. We never imagined it could be this delightful.

Peter & Linda on the deck, closeup

As I've been working on this course, I realized that there are eleven major areas in which we had problems. We tweaked each area and they each became virtually problem free.

This course has eleven lessons, one for each of those problem areas. We've taken the wisdom we've gained over the years and applied it to the appropriate lesson.

I hope that each of the readers of this page will take the course and apply this wisdom to their marriages. Then hopefully they can have marriages as delightful as ours.

Hard conversations

Some couples should have started that hard conversation years ago. It can be hard to discuss serious problems with your spouse. But, sometimes that is the only thing that can bring results.

Today a friend of ours told us about the difficult conversation she recently had with her husband. She told him that maybe they would be better off if they separated. Then, in almost the same breath, she said there were 5 things she wanted him to do:

  1. 1. When walking together, he had to hold her hand rather than walking head with the dog.
  2. 2. He had to give her flowers for all special occasions.
  3. 3. He had to stop avoiding conflict. Rather than covering up a conflict, he should try to resolve it.
  4. 4. He had to stop being afraid of her emotions when she was upset. He was supposed to try to understand why she was upset.
  5. 5. He had to start asking her if she needed any help around the house.
Before she even started enumerating the list of 5 items, she said that she wanted 3 hugs a day.


About a week later

The list was given out within the last few weeks. Already her husband gave her flowers the first special occasion. He's started giving her 3 hugs a day.

Point #3 above is covered in Lesson 7 of the Amazing Marriage course. #4 is covered in Lesson 2.

Two weeks later

Today, 2 weeks after the above story, our friend came over to our place. Judging from the positive things her husband has been saying lately, it looks like their marriage is happier than it's been for years.

Read about before & after you take the Amazing Marriage course.

BEFORE

The Reality Many Couples Face

  • Tense and full of walking-on-eggshells moments
  • Emotionally distant, even when sitting right next to each other
  • Stuck in the same arguments that never get resolved
  • Drained by money worries or silent resentment
  • Warmth, laughter, and easy connection slowly fading
AFTER

The Marriage You Deserve

  • Peaceful conversations where you both feel truly heard
  • Deep emotional safety and closeness every day
  • Conflicts that resolve in minutes instead of days
  • Money handled as a team, with calm and clarity
  • Natural romance, laughter, and the quiet joy of being known Happy mature couple enjoying peaceful moment together
The Program

11 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage

This isn't theory. It's not another counseling program. It's 11 practical, bite-sized lessons built from our real marriage—the exact habits that turned early disappointment into the calm, loving relationship we enjoy today.

Lesson 1

The Power of Consideration and Respect

The daily foundation that changes everything. Learn the simple mindset shift that eliminates tension.

Lesson 2

Developing Deep Empathy

Step into your partner's inner world and truly understand their feelings as if they were your own.

Lesson 3

Creating Emotional Intimacy and Safety

Feel known, accepted, and loved again through the quiet experience of being gently understood.

Lesson 4

Building Daily Communication Habits

Stop arguments before they start with simple daily rhythms that ensure you both feel heard.

Lesson 5

Managing Money as a Team

End financial stress and build shared security. The budgeting approach that took us 7 years to perfect.

Lesson 6

Creating Quality Time That Matters

Rediscover joy in being together. Go out of your way to enjoy each other's company daily.

Lesson 7

Resolving Conflicts Quickly

Turn disagreements into moments of connection. Resolve issues in minutes instead of days.

Lesson 8

The Art of Quick Forgiveness

Release resentment and heal old wounds. Learn to be quick to say sorry and quick to forgive.

Lesson 9

Rekindling Romance and Affection

Bring warmth and tenderness back into everyday life with small, intentional moments of love.

Lesson 10

Cultivating Unshakable Commitment

Build the security that lets love flourish. Create on-course corrections when things go sour.

Lesson 11

Family

Simple rhythms that keep love strong for a lifetime. Turn these lessons into lasting habits.

After 50+ years of marriage, we have figured out how to live every day in love and peace. Start your journey toward a peaceful and connected marriage.

Start building a peaceful, deeply connected marriage In the full Amazing Marriage course, we go deeper into the areas that most often place pressure on a relationship — money, physical intimacy, communication, conflict, forgiveness, commitment, and family life.

The full 11-lesson course will walk you step by step toward a calmer, closer, and more connected marriage.

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The complete 11-lesson course is $37 CAD (or $27 USD).

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